Everyone has different criteria for their marble jars.
Marble jar friends brene.
You share those hard things happening to you to friends who have over time filled up your marble jar.
Her mother brene responds trust is like a marble jar.
Marble jars in terms of friends and trust aren t something you discuss just what comes naturally.
I ve got marble jar friends brené brown daring greatly.
When we were elementary school aged many of us were open books who shared everything with our friends.
If they re making not great choices the teacher takes out marbles.
Conversely when the class veered into the land of negatives marbles were removed.
And the marble jar in the classroom is a jar where if the kids are making great choices together the teacher adds marbles.
She used the metaphor of marble jar friends to explain how family and friends earn the right to be in meaningful relationships.
When the class behaves and works hard the teacher adds a marble to the jar.
Some teachers use a marble jar with their class as an incentive for good behavior.
Family friends in my life include people build trust with me through through investigating and writing about trust further i now understand why i felt uncomfortable in this situation and will be able to explain it more clearly in the future.
You only need a few marble jar friends.
What is a marble jar.
She tells a great story of her daughter s teacher who kept a jar in the classroom and each time the class did something positive a marble went in the jar.
We use the marble jar as a metaphor for teaching that trust is built slowly over time and in small moments.
You also remove marbles when someone betrays your trust.
Who you know you can trust and tell difficult things to.
The marble jar integration idea to create safe and brave spaces of belonging we need to commit to doing our work before we do the work and to working within our scope and skill.
While you may still have a close knit group.
And if the jar gets filled up there s a celebration for the class.